Family Constellations,

‘Be Free to be You’


Healing from the Roots with Yildiz


 for Family, Relationships, Mental Health, Wellness and Trauma

Family Constellations for better Family functioning, Relationships, Mental Health, Wellness and trangenerational Trauma informed processing.

Focusing on Systemic Solutions

‘Be Free to be You’

This profound process is designed to work with human systems and systemic solutions for individuals, couples, family relationships and mental health and trauma.  Yildiz Sethi provides a range of  Family Constellations service.

These are  :

Family Constellations Workshops, Trainings and Private sessions,

Find the details, dates and fees by clicking the buttons below.

Family Constellations Online workshops

Family Constellations Online Trainings

Family Constellations Private Sessions
Online or In-Person (Brisbane Australia)

“I have seen Constellator’s in Europe and Brazil and was really pleased to find someone with world class skill here in Australia. A wonderful surprise to find Yildiz.” Carlos, Sydney

International Online Family Constellations Training

International Best Selling Author

International Online Family Constellations Training

Yildiz has been working as a Family Constellation therapist in person and online since 2005.

Systemic Family Constellations is a vital component of Rapid Core Healing Mastery, in working with systemic consciousness, in a wholistic approach for Personal and Systemic solutions. Details

Yildiz Sethi has a B.ED.M.Couns, DipHypnotherapy and has been in private practice since 2000. She is also a best selling author in the Constellations with Yildiz Sethi. More Information information Yildiz

The shadows of love, a poem by Yildiz Sethi 

I stand before you,

My parents, my grandparents and those beyond,

Hidden by the shadows of time

And yet you are within me.

Part of who I am,

I would not be here without you. 

I arise as a mixture of impulses

Opening to life, as if I am the first

Doing my bidding while I can,

Before laying down for those who follow. 

The shadows of time move on,

As I stand behind my children and grandchildren,

And recede into the shadows,

And so life rolls out,

On a river of love.

What is Family Constellations?

Family Constellations?

Family Constellations is a way of tapping into what you carry from your family system. This is a powerful, brief process that can assist you in letting go of burdens, bonds and confusions that hold you back from the essence of who you are.
Also known as Systemic Family Constellations.

Seven FAQs of Family Constellations.
See the drop down answers and for more information see the Video >

1 What is Family Constellations?

Family Constellations is method that views you and your patterns as part of your family and ancestral system in a powerful solution-focused experiential process (workshop or private session).

2 How to do Family Constellations?

While the Family Constellation process may appear to an observer may appear be simple, it requires comprehensive knowledge of human dynamics, entanglements and loyalties theory and practice to hold constellations safely and effectively. Good training is required.

3 Does Family Constellations work?

The family constellation process is a deeply psychotherapeutic and emotional-focused way to move forward in a positive way, when you are ready for change. See testimonials.

4 Family Constellations and Parenting

Family Constellation may be a powerful aid to family and parenting in assisting each of the couple to resolve their own past, in setting up a healthier structure for their present family.

5 Genetics and Family Constellations

There is evidence from epigenetics that valuable and problematic patterns and trauma are passed to future generations and have the power to switch genes on or off. Details

6 Christianity and Family Constellations

The founder of Family Constellations is Bert Hellinger who was a German catholic priest for many years prior to his founding of Family Constellations. Details

7 Family Constellations and Money

Your relationship with money or success may be very successfully worked with using Family Constellations.See Business Constellations


The Benefits of doing your Constellations
  • Make peace with yourself through your family system
  • Take your place in life by finding a healthy place in your system
  • Improve your relationship with you
  • Improve your relationships with others
  • Be the best parent you can be
  • Create healthy boundaries.
  • Change your perspective
  • Let go of patterns that bind
  • Improve your resilience and confidence
  • Open your heart to love
  • Let go of burdens


Family Constellations workshop

Making peace with yourself and your entry into life is a major step in personal growth.

This starts with looking at yourself as part of your system.

Noticing your loyalties and what you carry and letting them go as you move forward in your own life.

This can have a huge impact on all areas of your life

Relationships and the role of Family Constellations

Family Constellations and women

Relationship with Yourself

Sense of worth and forms your self esteem. This primarily comes from your perception of yourself in your family system. This results in better mental health and personal boundaries and personla growth

Couples Relationships

Couples help in sorting out relationships. Assisting you in knowing whats yours and what belongs to the other. Each of a couple takes their system into their relationships. Single parenting and blended families may benefit greatly from family Constellations.

Creating clearer boundaries with compassion.

The Partners You Choose

We choose our partners unconsciously to fit with what we know and what we have yet to come to peace with from our family system. So if you repeatedly choose the same kind of inappropriate partner it is worthwhile looking at where you are tied up in your family system, so you can let it go.

Moving on after a Break up

While its usually painful, Family Constellations can be a valuable way of moving through in assisting you to let go of the emotional entanglement, so you can complete your grieving and let it go


We all have the intention of being the best parents we can be. However, it is also true that many of us repeat patterns from our family system inadvertently.  In coming to a better place in your own family system and realigning with your partner as parents, this can be changed significantly for the better.

Mental Health and Family Constellations

Family Constellations Nice man

Being confused, feeling unsupported, unnoticed, unheard, disconnected or burdened can have profound affects on your mental health. This is so fundamental it can lead to a range of mental health issues.

In addition there is a tendency for us to carry mental health patterns form our family system. Epigenetics

Family Constellations may be very helpful in your finding more clarity and lightening your load for better mental health outcomes.

Wellness and Family Constellations

Family Constellations

It has been shown though many years of constellations work and through the latest studies in epigenetics that what we carry with and from our family system can have a profound impact on our physical and mental health. Our mind and body remembers

Trauma and Family Constellations

There is a lot of evidence of how generational trauma is passed down through generations. This may be due to war, colonisation, violence, injustice, or starvation, having to fee to survive. On a personal level it may also be through violence or sexual abuse in a family system. Family Constellations is well placed to assist people in resolving transgenerational trauma so they may move on with more freedom into the future as the latest generation of their system. See trauma and bonding by Peter Levine

Family Constellations

Family Constellations Online Workshops

The power of the connection with others in the group process.

Our your constellation or be an observer or representative.

The shifts of energy and arising of new perspectives.

Family Constellations Online Workshops

Family Constellations Online Training

  • Become a Family Constellations facilitator.
  • Transform your existing work as a therapist or coach
  • Or embark on a new career.
  • Online 12 week  training with a powerful experiential component. Significant combined personal and professional development
  • On completion, get insurancea and start working.
  • Family Constellations Training

Family Constellations Private Sessions Online or in person

  • For those who prefer a private session or package in person (Brisbane Australia) or online.
  • Private sessions are brief and transformational. No need for months or years of therapy.
  • Book in for a session of 60-90 minutes

Private sessions online or in person (Brisbane Qld Australia)

What people are saying

I couldn’t understand why I was attracting the same kind of partners. I know what I want and yet all of my relationships followed the same pattern. The Family Constellation showed the ancestral pattern. It was so sad and yet freeing. Now I feel gratitude and a certain maturity. I now feel really ready to be real in relationship for the first time. Thanks   Jenifer

Family Constellations therapy

Relationship help

The private session I had with Yildiz was profound. We went to places I didn’t know were there and I feel so light now. A great experience and with so much sensitivity. Jo

Family Constellations private session

I have been aware of my generational truama for a long time but didn’t know what to do about it. Initally talking about it felt like a release, but over time it was still there. Family Constellations has finally aloud me to come to peace with it and let it go. It is such a relief.  Many thanks Yildiz.   Mary

Generational trauma therapy

Systemic trauma


“We met last year in the last workshop in Sydney.

You know… it was my first and only constellation so far. I just gave it a go because I was desperate and it seemed to be the only door I founded opened. I had tried to fall pregnant for almost five years before being diagnosed  with deep endometriosis. After the diagnosis I went to GPs many time asking for referral letter to see a specialist and couldn’t find a single one to make an appointment with.

After the workshop I had this feeling that to be a mom is my destiny and whatever had been in my way was gone after the constellation.

Well, I met a doctor right after the constellation, he was simply passionate about my case, I had my surgery with him in December and one month after the surgery I fell pregnant 🤰🏻 💕

I’m living my biggest dream now! My husband and I, my whole family are so sooo happy!

There is no words to explain how I’m feeling!

Thank you for everything!”



“Thanks Yildiz and Satish, for holding such a beautiful space over the weekend.

The workshop was incredibly powerful for me, with a tangible shift. I had to attend a work dinner on Sunday night and a colleague commented that I looked really different and wanted to know what had happened!

It’s such important work that you do – I tell a lot of people about it.”



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