Most of us come to a point in our lives where we realise that even though our lives may be good in many respects, there are one or several underlying themes that show up in patterns, situations and particular kinds of people we encounter who arouse conflict or sadness, disappointment, anger and shame or who may have unrealistic expectations of us.
We try will-power, planning, logical thinking, self-help books, courses, counselling, coaching and yet uncomfortable themes and patterns continue to unfold.
Modern culture particularly in the west is very much about autonomy, power, and the belief that we can shape our lives as we wish. Many spiritual teachings support this. However, as human beings we are complex. We are part of evolution on this planet. Part of nature. Physical beings with consciousness and a soul. In this we have DNA that provides us physicality, function and a nervous system to operate and survive on this planet. In the bigger picture, we are part of the universe and All That Is.
I too believe we can create our reality and I too found underlying themes operating in my life with blocks and sabotage, like spokes in my wheel.
However, we are a unique species on the planet. Born into family systems with an innate need for connection and love that remains a driving force. And yet we are often born into families that often don’t feel like a good fit and may even be emotionally abusive or damaging. Wounding’s of this kind form entanglements, loyalties and distressed emotions, that do indeed get in the way of our aspirations.
Affects relationships. Who you attract into your life and why some of us stay in difficult relationships way past their use-by-date, or avoid relationships altogether.
Affects sense of worth. This becomes the basis of belief in ourselves and what we may aspire to, or allow ourselves to achieve.
Family Constellations is designed to work with the relational parts of who we are. I call this the Generational brain. This unique way of working is designed to tap into the patterns operating in our lives, to provide us with an experience of our reality and the cause of our blocks. With ways to safely express and release the emotional and psychological entanglements that we carry, so we may move on with more freedom.
Family Constellations is a brief, powerful, experiential and solution-focused way of working that may take place in workshops using representatives from the group to represent the significant people in your life in order to find a healthier place in our system. A place of acceptance where you may move forward with more peace and authentic personal power.
This may also take place in private sessions Details.
The next online Family Constellations training starts on 1 May Details
Books about Family Constellations in Audio, ebook, paperback Details
I am holding a Family Constellations workshop at the Tamborine Mountain Heritage Centre on the 12 April at Mount Tamborine 9-5PM . There are two entry levels. One to look at an issue in doing your own constellation and one to come as an observer or representative Details to Book NOW. Limited places for constellation.