Self development may be viewed in many ways. Personal development, spiritual development, and personal growth, .Developing more inner strength and clearer personal boundaries is essential to open up to who you are.
You may be looking to improve your relationship and know that this has to start with you. Or you may keep attracting innappropriate people into you life and wish to change the pattern..
You may be a crossroad sin your life in personal growth, relationships or career and life purpose.
For more details of Personal development see Yildiz Sethi