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Is Communication the most important factor?

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Family Constellation tip- Love heals.

What do you think is the most important order of qualities to maintain a long term relationship?

Communication Chemistry or Compatibility?

 

How you communicate in a relationship is very important. In fact many feel that if a relationship is in crisis then working on the communication is what is required to fix any problems. However trying to Fix a relationship when there is no basic compatibility is a relatively shallow resolution that may not have any lasting effect.

Chemistry is also very important particularly at the beginning of a relationship. However, this often wears off over time, especially if true compatibility is not present.

Many people reile too heavily on Chemistry as an indicator of a great attraction and then when it starts to fail may try to look at communication.If basic compatibility is not present for along term relationship, then this will also be insufficient for a deeper connection.

From a Family Constellation perspective  it may be necessary to look at the underlying dynamic of what each of a couple are caught up in from their family of origin. This is often the key to compatibility.

While a Family Constellation cannot ensure you stay together it can help you to find your place within and hence find a better place from which to connect to others in relationship. Many couple do in fact stay together after a constellation

Generally a Family Constellation helps you free yourself from unhealthy entanglements and loyalties and enables you to receive and give love more freely. This is a gift in itself as love heals.

Coming from a fuller more harmonious centre can only have a positive spin-off in all areas of your life, relationships, career and wellness.

Namaste’ May the God/Goddess in me see the God/Goddess in you.

Love Heals

Family Constellation tip- Love heals. How you communicate in a relationship is very important. In fact many feel that if a relationship isFamily Constellation tip- Love heals. How you communicate in a relationship is very important. In fact many feel that if a relationship is in crisis then working on the communication is what is required. From a Family Constellation perspective if this is not enough to make a difference then it may be necessary to look at the underlying dynamic of what each of a couple are caught up in from their family of origin. This is often the key. While a Family Constellation cannot ensure you stay together it can help you to find your place within and hence find a better place from which to connect to others in relationship. Generally a Family Constellation helps you free yourself from unhealthy entanglements and loyalties and enables you to receive and give love more freely. This is a gift in itself as love heals. Coming from a fuller more harmonious centre can only have a positive spin-off in all areas of your life, relationships, career and wellness. Namaste’ May the God/Goddess in me see the God/Goddess in you. in crisis then working on the communication is what is required. From a Family Constellation perspective if this is not enough to make a difference then it may be necessary to look at the underlying dynamic of what each of a couple are caught up in from their family of origin. This is often the key. While a Family Constellation cannot ensure you stay together it can help you to find your place within and hence find a better place from which to connect to others in relationship. Generally a Family Constellation helps you free yourself from unhealthy entanglements and loyalties and enables you to receive and give love more freely. This is a gift in itself as love heals. Coming from a fuller more harmonious centre can only have a positive spin-off in all areas of your life, relationships, career and wellness. Namaste’ May the God/Goddess in me see the God/Goddess in you.

International Family Constellation Training

PR 30 July 2015

The new face of therapy training says Yildiz Sethi

Y small soft 15International Systemic Family Constellation training is taking place in Brisbane Australia on the 2-10 January 2016 with Yildiz Sethi. The course contains 3 modules for professionals in a 9-day intensive comprehensive course dealing with Family of Origin, Present family and Private sessions. This is an exciting, revolutionary way of dealing with issues for individuals and relationships from the teachings of Bert Hellinger. The format of the course is perfect for national and international therapists. This course will be conducted in English.

Yildiz is a registered psychotherapist, clinical hypnotherapist and practitioner and trainer of Family Constellations since 2005. She is a former educator of Australian College of Applied Psychology who specialised in methods of counselling and has been trained by the innovator Bert Hellinger and Svagito Leibermeister in addition to many other international trainers. She is highly experienced and has been running monthly Family Constellations  workshops in Brisbane and Sydney since 2005 and is an expert of private sessions in Family and Business constellations.

Yildiz says “Family Constellations is a revolutionary, powerful, systemic approach to individual, relationships, success and wellness issues. It is an effective, experiential, solution-focused and an energetic, psychotherapeutic approach that assists people in finding new healthier perspectives on themselves and their family or situation. This provides an avenue from which they can grow and form healthier relationships in the present.”

She believes that “Family Constellations is an effective methodology to restore or heal faulty attachment bonds from family of origin that is relatively brief in nature and may stand alone or be part of a longer therapeutic process.”

She continues,

  • “As a registered counsellor and clinical hypnotherapist, talk therapy is fine for communication, debriefing, sorting out thoughts and feelings, but is not so effective with deeper unconscious or systemic issues, hence the need for more effective and efficient methodologies.
  • “Family Constellations can be experienced in a group/workshop situation or alternatively private session”.
  • “The training is ideal for those who already work in a therapeutic manner with others”.
  • “There is evidence to support the effectiveness of working systemically through the study of Epigenetics is showing that DNA is not as hard wired as previously thought and can be switched on or off by environmental, social and emotional factors and patterns passed down generations through relational bonds.
    Quote from the study,
    ‘It turns out that although I don’t remember my life before four years of age, my genes do. What I ate, how I responded to events, how my parents treated me, what I learnt, all placed chemical markers on my DNA. Those tags affect how my genes are expressed throughout my life.’
    ​Studies in Epigenetics shows that social, environmental and emotional and relational factors affect the switching of DNA markers on or off, hence the work of Systemic Family Constellations that deals with healing trauma and resolving emotional and relational dysfunctions and improving wellness for individuals, families and for the extended family system is a valuable methodology for deeper healing”. http://www.abc.net.au/catalyst/stories/4198637.htm 17/03/15

“The training focuses on Family of Origin, Present family, Private sessions.”

“The training involves both Professional and Personal Development.”

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Media contact  Yildiz Sethi 0412172300 +61731616171
www,familyconstellations.com.au

Family Constellation Training Super Early Bird Coming up 1 Aug

Family Constellation Training

9 day intensive 2-10 January.
This is a unique personal development and Family Constellation Training course that is primarily experiential. We hold this 9 day training only once per year. It is an ideal opportunity for this who live interstate or internationally to come to do the training in one intensive.
This is a course for practitioners. If you are not a practitioner and are interested, please contact us to discuss your suitability.

In this course you will learn about Family dynamics, Blind Love, Entanglements, Order. Loyalty and how patterns are passed on though the Family of Origin into Present family situations.

You will be given notes and through teaching and discussion and experiencing the dynamics of your own constellation and those of the group you will be proceed on your own personal journey of clearing and clarifying so you may walk in your rightful place in both your personal and professional life.

This Family Constellation Training is also a deep personal growth course.
If you are someone who really wants to understand about family and relationship dynamics and gain the tools and experience to step into your rightful place in your family with more clarity and peace. then you will find this course invaluable. With this knowledge you may aspire to be the best that you can be and gain a deeper understanding of those around you.

For more information 

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Family ConstellationPersonal Development 6 Day Intensive.
A New Course for those who really want to understand themselves and their families:

‘Healing from the Roots Advanced  Experiential Growth course. Six day Personal Development.’

consists of 2 modules.

Module 1 (3 days) Family of origin.

Module 2 (3 days) Present family

  • Learn about Family Dynamics for personal and relational growth.
  • One of our most important first tasks in personal development is in
    Knowing, Accepting and eventually loving ourselves.
  • This course will assist you in re establishing yourself and your connections in a healthy way so that you can fulfil your potential as a human being now.

We all come from families and are a product of all those that have gone before us.Take the opportunity to receive a constellation in both your original family AND your present situation for deep clearing through the learning experience.

If you are someone who really wants to understand about family and relationship dynamics and gain the tools and experience to step into your rightful place in your family with more clarity and peace. then you will find this course invaluable. With this knowledge you may aspire to be the best that you can be and gain a deeper understanding of those around you. In finding your place in your original family and discovering the underlying patterns of relational and generational dynamics, you may free yourself in the present for new possibilities.

Learn about Family Dynamics.

Take the opportunity to receive a constellation in both your original family AND your present situation for deep clearing through the learning experience. For more information

For more information see the calendar

Yildiz and Satish have received training from Bert Hellinger and Svagito Leibermeister and have been running regular workshop since 2005 in Brisbane and Sydney Australia. More informationFamily Constellation Training
2-10 January
Brisbane$2800EB 2547Super EB $2100 1 Aug More details

Family Constellation Personal Development

6 Day Intensive
Healing from the Roots Advanced, Experiential, Growth course.
Six day Personal Development

2-7 January 2016
Brisbane

$1900

EB $1700 1 Sept

Super EB $1550 1 Aug

More details 07 3161 6171

Yildiz is available for private sessions

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Be Rich AND Spiritual

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New developments in Family Constellations

Celebrations!! 
Family Constellations Pty Ltd is now in its 10th year of operation, offering an experienced and effective service with us.
 Yildiz and Satish started Family Constellations in 2005 and have run regular workshops in Brisbane and Sydney. Our experience is extensive, so you may be assured of the highest quality service.

Because we are always being asked the differences between each of the following, I have outlined them here. In Family Constellations what is being a representative, doing your own constellation. The difference between the 1 or 2 day workshop, Personal development intensive, Family Constellations Training?
1 Attending as a Representative
Being a representative and observer is a great entry level into Family Constellations. It is a wonderful way to experience the process to see to see if it may be a suitable one for you.
You are likely to gain awareness and learning about relationships in general that may well be of assistance in your own life. Being a representative in a Family Constellations workshop can help you gain insight and awareness into your own situation, relationships and emotions. Great insight can be gained. Many people report great shifts or awareness raising of their own situation from being a participant.
You may be asked to take part in other people’s constellations You have the opportunity to see the facilitator at work,
2 Doing your own Family Constellation or Business Constellation 
After a short discussion with the facilitator you will be asked to pick representatives of the people of the issue and place them in relation to each other. This sets up the constellation and shows the underlying dynamic of your situation. The constellation taps into the energy field of the family and the situation and the facilitator guides it to a place of more order. This is a solution focused, experiential process that is brief. Constellations places are limited and booked at registration.
3 What is the difference between the

One and Two day workshops?
 One day workshop
During this workshop a number of constellations take place in the day. This is a powerful day of experiences that will often touch each person on several levels due to the variety of the constellations that take place. All participants may be chosen to take part in constellations throughout the day.
 Two days workshop
This is the same as a one day workshop but with more constellations. This is a powerful two days of experiences that will often touch each person on several levels due to the variety of the constellations that take place. All participants may be chosen to take part in constellations throughout the workshop.
A New Course for those who really want to understand themselves and their families:
’Healing from the Roots Advanced Healing Experiential learning course. Six day Personal Development.’
consists of 2 modules.
Module 1 (3 days) Family of origin.
Module 2 (3 days) Present family
Learn about Family Dynamics.
Take the opportunity to receive a constellation in both your original family AND your present situation for deep clearing through the learning experience.
If you are someone who really wants to understand about family and relationship dynamics and gain the tools and experience to step into your rightful place in your family with more clarity and peace. then you will find this course invaluable. With this knowledge you may aspire to be the best that you can be and gain a deeper understanding of those around you. In finding your place in your original family and discovering the underlying patterns of relational and generational dynamics, you may free yourself in the present for new possibilities.
In this course you will learn about Family dynamics, Blind Love, Entanglements, Order. Loyalty and how patterns are passed on though the Family of Origin into Present family situations.
You will be given notes and through teaching and discussion and experiencing the dynamics of your own constellation and those of the group you will be proceed on your own personal journey of clearing and clarifying so you may walk in your rightful place in both your personal and professional life.
For more information see the calendar
Family Constellation Training
9 day intensive 2-10 January.
A unique personal development and Family Constellation Training course that is primarily experiential. For more information 
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A Helpers group is starting.
If you have attended our Family Constellations workshops and would like to volunteer your time to helping out in the workshops in Sydney or Brisbane please let us know. This is a great opportunity for people to stay in the field and to contribute and connect. Please email me to indicate your interest.
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Case studies required.
I have been asked to provide a case study of Family Constellations for an article I am writing for a publication, from some one who is willing to provide a name and photograph and their constellation briefly. If you are willing to do this please let us know. For this you may choose to come to a workshop free as a representative or have my latest hardcopy book Be Rich AND Spiritual. I look forward to hearing from you.
www.familyconstellations.com.au

New developments

10 year celebration
Price changes. Couples Special.
New Personal Development Intensive January 2016
Family ConstellationTraining
Helpers group starting
Case studies required.

Celebration!!!- Family Constellations P/L is now in its 10th year of operation offering an experienced and effective service.

Yildiz and Satish started Family Constellations in 2005 and have run regular workshops in Brisbane and Sydney since then until the present time. Our experience is extensive, so you may be assured of the highest quality service.

We have increased our prices a little. First time in many years. We now offer a couples special
Sydney $550 for a couple for each to do a Constellation 2 day workshop.
Brisbane $500 for a couple for each to do a Constellation 2 day workshop.
Prices

Being a representative and observer is a great entry level into Family Constellations. It is a wonderful way to experience the process to see to see if it may be a suitable one for you.

You are likely to gain awareness and learning about relationships in general that may well be of assistance in your own life. Being a representative in a Family Constellations workshop can help you gain insight and awareness into your own situation, relationships and emotions. Great insight can be gained. Many people report great shifts or awareness raising of their own situation from being a participant.

You may be asked to take part in other people’s constellations You have the opportunity to see the facilitator at work,

Constellation. Family Constellation or Business Constellation 

After a short discussion with the facilitator you will be asked to pick representatives of the people of the issue and place them in relation to each other. This sets up the constellation and shows the underlying dynamic of your situation. The constellation taps into the energy field of the family and the situation and the facilitator guides it to a place of more order. This is a solution focused, experiential process that is brief. Constellations places are limited and booked at registration.

What is the difference between the One and Two day workshops?
Healing from the roots One day workshop

During this workshop a number of constellations take place in the day. This is a powerful day of experiences that will often touch each person on several levels due to the variety of the constellations that take place. All participants may be chosen to take part in constellations throughout the day.

Healing from the roots Two days workshop

This is the same as a one day workshop but with more constellations. This is a powerful day of experiences that will often touch each person on several levels due to the variety of the constellations that take place. All participants may be chosen to take part in constellations throughout the workshop.

Healing from the Roots Advanced Healing Experiential learning course. Six day Personal Development

consists of 2 modules.

Module 1 (3 days) Family of origin.

Module 2 (3 days) Present family

Learn about Family Dynamics.

Take the opportunity to receive a constellation in both your original family AND your present situation for deep clearing through the learning experience.

If you are someone who really wants to understand about family and relationship dynamics and gain the tools and experience to step into your rightful place in your family with more clarity and peace. then you will find this course invaluable. With this knowledge you may aspire to be the best that you can be and gain a deeper understanding of those around you. In finding your place in your original family and discovering the underlying patterns of relational and generational dynamics, you may free yourself in the present for new possibilities.

In this course you will learn about Family dynamics, Blind Love, Entanglements, Order. Loyalty and how patterns are passed on though the Family of Origin into Present family situations.

You will be given notes and through teaching and discussion and experiencing the dynamics of your own constellation and those of the group you will be proceed on your own personal journey of clearing and clarifying so you may walk in your rightful place in both your personal and professional life.

For more information see the calendar

Family Constellation Training
9 day intensive 2-10 January.
A unique personal development and Family ConstellationTraining course that is primarily experiential. For more information 

Helpers group is starting.

If you have attended our Family Constellations workshops and would like to volunteer your time to helping out in the workshops in Sydney or Brisbane please let us know. This is a great opportunity for people to stay in the field and to contribute and connect. Please email me to indicate your interest.

Case studies required.

I have been asked to provide a case study of Family Constellations from some one who is willing to provide a name and photograph and their constellation briefly. If you are willing to do this please let us know. For this you may choose to come to a workshop free as a representative or have my latest hardcopy book Be Rich AND Spiritual. I look forward to hearing from you.

Family Constellations Training

 

9 day intensive Family Constellation training 2-10 January 2016, Brisbane, Queensland, Australia

“Its never too late to have a happy childhood” Milton Errickson

Even though there is no doubt that some of us have a much tougher life or destiny than others, in that we may be born into difficult situations or dynamics, it is how we make meaning of it that forms how we move on in life.

There are many things that keep us stuck.
Trauma is often a major contributor in keeping people stuck in the past.
Systemic entanglements of the family system are strong forces.
Poor or insecure attachments between mother/father and child can be significant in making us feel disconnected or unloved.

It has been thought up to recently that such things cannot be changed.

What if it was possible in our unconscious mind and family system, to put events, relationships or situation into a better order? In this way we may be able to experience them differently. Perhaps gain a new perspective that we had not been aware of before that changes how we view a situation and ourselves?

What if we were able to stop carrying burdens for others in terms of guilt, shame, sadness or anger?

What if we were able to release, express or transform our emotional state or trauma?

This is all possible in Family Constellations which is why it is such a powerful therapeutic approach going much deeper than counselling and standard hypnotherapy processes.

I am offering a unique 9 day intensive Family Constellation training 2-10 January 2016 Brisbane.

This is suitable for therapists of many descriptions as well as counsellors, hypnotherapists, social workers, psychologists.

As our family system is pivotal in how we relate in the present, this course will greatly enhance your skills as a therapist in providing you with skills and a compassionate approach to helping people move on effectively.

The training is largely experiential and involves significant personal and professional development in one package. Each person is able to have their own constellations done as part of the training. This becomes useful experiential learning and also a way of resolving entanglements and ‘blind spots’ in the participants of the training which is invaluable in the therapeutic setting.

Unique because this is 3 modules, Family of Origin, Present family and private sessions all in one 9 day training. This is ideal for those with time to do this at this time of the year or those who are travelling interstate.

For Details of Family Constellation Training and bookings +61 7 3161 6171 mob 0412  172 300

www.familyconstellations.com.au

A new start

attractive-womanThe festive season is not the happiest time for many people.

For many, meeting family members can be stressful or even painful. For others it is a time of isolation. Many old stories and memories are stirred up. If you have painful memories that are getting in the way of coming to place of peace then perhaps this is an opportunity to put them to rest and make a new start.

 

 

Jane came to a workshop wanting to increase her sense of femininity.  Even though she was attractive she said she felt unattractive and had little confidence with men. In looking at her family system she came from a long line of women who had not been able to sustain relationships for many generations. She came from a European country that had sustained many wars, invasions and significant violence not only to the menfolk but also to women and children.

 

Jane’s constellation revealed many secrets from the female line and also the sadness of the men that could not stand in their place as men with pride, such was the emaciation of personal and national history.

 

Much grief was released in the constellation on many levels and the men were able to honor the women for their strength in carrying on where they didn’t. Strong men ancestors were bought in to support the men and the women and Jane was at last able to stand up with pride and feel her feminine strength and beauty.

Couples Special

There is no doubt that the family dynamics that we are born into will often play out in present day relationships. This may be in the partner we choose and our love relationship and parenting.

Jenny’s father’s alcoholic behaviour destroyed her family during her childhood. In adulthood Jenny attracted several partners with addictions and eventually had children. Now she is concerned to stop this pattern going into her children’s generation.

Couples Specials October Sydney.
1Couples. Come as a couple. Each of the couple can do their own constellation for $250 each only. Save $100/couple.
2 Resolve a Parent child issue.

  • Mother daughter.

  • Mother son.

  • Father daughter.

  • Father son.

3 Two representatives for the price of one for one couple only.

Studies in epigenetics show that social, emotional and relational patterns are passed down from one generation to the next through the relational connection.

Family Constellations is an ideal process for resolving a wide range of dynamics, quickly, experientially and in a solution focused powerful psychotherapeutic process. Sydney

25-26 October 8.45-5pm
169 Castlreagh St, Sydney 2000
Do your own Constellation $300 Early Bird
Be a representative $90
Book Now

Brisbane
22 Nov 8.45-5pm
Wakerley Qld 4154
Do your own Constellation $270 Early Bird 20 October $250
Be a representative $90
Book Now

07 3390 8039
www.familyconstellations.com.au