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International Family Constellation Training

PR 30 July 2015

The new face of therapy training says Yildiz Sethi

Y small soft 15International Systemic Family Constellation training is taking place in Brisbane Australia on the 2-10 January 2016 with Yildiz Sethi. The course contains 3 modules for professionals in a 9-day intensive comprehensive course dealing with Family of Origin, Present family and Private sessions. This is an exciting, revolutionary way of dealing with issues for individuals and relationships from the teachings of Bert Hellinger. The format of the course is perfect for national and international therapists. This course will be conducted in English.

Yildiz is a registered psychotherapist, clinical hypnotherapist and practitioner and trainer of Family Constellations since 2005. She is a former educator of Australian College of Applied Psychology who specialised in methods of counselling and has been trained by the innovator Bert Hellinger and Svagito Leibermeister in addition to many other international trainers. She is highly experienced and has been running monthly Family Constellations  workshops in Brisbane and Sydney since 2005 and is an expert of private sessions in Family and Business constellations.

Yildiz says “Family Constellations is a revolutionary, powerful, systemic approach to individual, relationships, success and wellness issues. It is an effective, experiential, solution-focused and an energetic, psychotherapeutic approach that assists people in finding new healthier perspectives on themselves and their family or situation. This provides an avenue from which they can grow and form healthier relationships in the present.”

She believes that “Family Constellations is an effective methodology to restore or heal faulty attachment bonds from family of origin that is relatively brief in nature and may stand alone or be part of a longer therapeutic process.”

She continues,

  • “As a registered counsellor and clinical hypnotherapist, talk therapy is fine for communication, debriefing, sorting out thoughts and feelings, but is not so effective with deeper unconscious or systemic issues, hence the need for more effective and efficient methodologies.
  • “Family Constellations can be experienced in a group/workshop situation or alternatively private session”.
  • “The training is ideal for those who already work in a therapeutic manner with others”.
  • “There is evidence to support the effectiveness of working systemically through the study of Epigenetics is showing that DNA is not as hard wired as previously thought and can be switched on or off by environmental, social and emotional factors and patterns passed down generations through relational bonds.
    Quote from the study,
    ‘It turns out that although I don’t remember my life before four years of age, my genes do. What I ate, how I responded to events, how my parents treated me, what I learnt, all placed chemical markers on my DNA. Those tags affect how my genes are expressed throughout my life.’
    ​Studies in Epigenetics shows that social, environmental and emotional and relational factors affect the switching of DNA markers on or off, hence the work of Systemic Family Constellations that deals with healing trauma and resolving emotional and relational dysfunctions and improving wellness for individuals, families and for the extended family system is a valuable methodology for deeper healing”. http://www.abc.net.au/catalyst/stories/4198637.htm 17/03/15

“The training focuses on Family of Origin, Present family, Private sessions.”

“The training involves both Professional and Personal Development.”

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Media contact  Yildiz Sethi 0412172300 +61731616171
www,familyconstellations.com.au

Family Constellation Training Super Early Bird Coming up 1 Aug

Family Constellation Training

9 day intensive 2-10 January.
This is a unique personal development and Family Constellation Training course that is primarily experiential. We hold this 9 day training only once per year. It is an ideal opportunity for this who live interstate or internationally to come to do the training in one intensive.
This is a course for practitioners. If you are not a practitioner and are interested, please contact us to discuss your suitability.

In this course you will learn about Family dynamics, Blind Love, Entanglements, Order. Loyalty and how patterns are passed on though the Family of Origin into Present family situations.

You will be given notes and through teaching and discussion and experiencing the dynamics of your own constellation and those of the group you will be proceed on your own personal journey of clearing and clarifying so you may walk in your rightful place in both your personal and professional life.

This Family Constellation Training is also a deep personal growth course.
If you are someone who really wants to understand about family and relationship dynamics and gain the tools and experience to step into your rightful place in your family with more clarity and peace. then you will find this course invaluable. With this knowledge you may aspire to be the best that you can be and gain a deeper understanding of those around you.

For more information 

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Family ConstellationPersonal Development 6 Day Intensive.
A New Course for those who really want to understand themselves and their families:

‘Healing from the Roots Advanced  Experiential Growth course. Six day Personal Development.’

consists of 2 modules.

Module 1 (3 days) Family of origin.

Module 2 (3 days) Present family

  • Learn about Family Dynamics for personal and relational growth.
  • One of our most important first tasks in personal development is in
    Knowing, Accepting and eventually loving ourselves.
  • This course will assist you in re establishing yourself and your connections in a healthy way so that you can fulfil your potential as a human being now.

We all come from families and are a product of all those that have gone before us.Take the opportunity to receive a constellation in both your original family AND your present situation for deep clearing through the learning experience.

If you are someone who really wants to understand about family and relationship dynamics and gain the tools and experience to step into your rightful place in your family with more clarity and peace. then you will find this course invaluable. With this knowledge you may aspire to be the best that you can be and gain a deeper understanding of those around you. In finding your place in your original family and discovering the underlying patterns of relational and generational dynamics, you may free yourself in the present for new possibilities.

Learn about Family Dynamics.

Take the opportunity to receive a constellation in both your original family AND your present situation for deep clearing through the learning experience. For more information

For more information see the calendar

Yildiz and Satish have received training from Bert Hellinger and Svagito Leibermeister and have been running regular workshop since 2005 in Brisbane and Sydney Australia. More informationFamily Constellation Training
2-10 January
Brisbane$2800EB 2547Super EB $2100 1 Aug More details

Family Constellation Personal Development

6 Day Intensive
Healing from the Roots Advanced, Experiential, Growth course.
Six day Personal Development

2-7 January 2016
Brisbane

$1900

EB $1700 1 Sept

Super EB $1550 1 Aug

More details 07 3161 6171

Yildiz is available for private sessions

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New developments in Family Constellations

Celebrations!! 
Family Constellations Pty Ltd is now in its 10th year of operation, offering an experienced and effective service with us.
 Yildiz and Satish started Family Constellations in 2005 and have run regular workshops in Brisbane and Sydney. Our experience is extensive, so you may be assured of the highest quality service.

Because we are always being asked the differences between each of the following, I have outlined them here. In Family Constellations what is being a representative, doing your own constellation. The difference between the 1 or 2 day workshop, Personal development intensive, Family Constellations Training?
1 Attending as a Representative
Being a representative and observer is a great entry level into Family Constellations. It is a wonderful way to experience the process to see to see if it may be a suitable one for you.
You are likely to gain awareness and learning about relationships in general that may well be of assistance in your own life. Being a representative in a Family Constellations workshop can help you gain insight and awareness into your own situation, relationships and emotions. Great insight can be gained. Many people report great shifts or awareness raising of their own situation from being a participant.
You may be asked to take part in other people’s constellations You have the opportunity to see the facilitator at work,
2 Doing your own Family Constellation or Business Constellation 
After a short discussion with the facilitator you will be asked to pick representatives of the people of the issue and place them in relation to each other. This sets up the constellation and shows the underlying dynamic of your situation. The constellation taps into the energy field of the family and the situation and the facilitator guides it to a place of more order. This is a solution focused, experiential process that is brief. Constellations places are limited and booked at registration.
3 What is the difference between the

One and Two day workshops?
 One day workshop
During this workshop a number of constellations take place in the day. This is a powerful day of experiences that will often touch each person on several levels due to the variety of the constellations that take place. All participants may be chosen to take part in constellations throughout the day.
 Two days workshop
This is the same as a one day workshop but with more constellations. This is a powerful two days of experiences that will often touch each person on several levels due to the variety of the constellations that take place. All participants may be chosen to take part in constellations throughout the workshop.
A New Course for those who really want to understand themselves and their families:
’Healing from the Roots Advanced Healing Experiential learning course. Six day Personal Development.’
consists of 2 modules.
Module 1 (3 days) Family of origin.
Module 2 (3 days) Present family
Learn about Family Dynamics.
Take the opportunity to receive a constellation in both your original family AND your present situation for deep clearing through the learning experience.
If you are someone who really wants to understand about family and relationship dynamics and gain the tools and experience to step into your rightful place in your family with more clarity and peace. then you will find this course invaluable. With this knowledge you may aspire to be the best that you can be and gain a deeper understanding of those around you. In finding your place in your original family and discovering the underlying patterns of relational and generational dynamics, you may free yourself in the present for new possibilities.
In this course you will learn about Family dynamics, Blind Love, Entanglements, Order. Loyalty and how patterns are passed on though the Family of Origin into Present family situations.
You will be given notes and through teaching and discussion and experiencing the dynamics of your own constellation and those of the group you will be proceed on your own personal journey of clearing and clarifying so you may walk in your rightful place in both your personal and professional life.
For more information see the calendar
Family Constellation Training
9 day intensive 2-10 January.
A unique personal development and Family Constellation Training course that is primarily experiential. For more information 
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A Helpers group is starting.
If you have attended our Family Constellations workshops and would like to volunteer your time to helping out in the workshops in Sydney or Brisbane please let us know. This is a great opportunity for people to stay in the field and to contribute and connect. Please email me to indicate your interest.
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Case studies required.
I have been asked to provide a case study of Family Constellations for an article I am writing for a publication, from some one who is willing to provide a name and photograph and their constellation briefly. If you are willing to do this please let us know. For this you may choose to come to a workshop free as a representative or have my latest hardcopy book Be Rich AND Spiritual. I look forward to hearing from you.
www.familyconstellations.com.au

New developments

10 year celebration
Price changes. Couples Special.
New Personal Development Intensive January 2016
Family ConstellationTraining
Helpers group starting
Case studies required.

Celebration!!!- Family Constellations P/L is now in its 10th year of operation offering an experienced and effective service.

Yildiz and Satish started Family Constellations in 2005 and have run regular workshops in Brisbane and Sydney since then until the present time. Our experience is extensive, so you may be assured of the highest quality service.

We have increased our prices a little. First time in many years. We now offer a couples special
Sydney $550 for a couple for each to do a Constellation 2 day workshop.
Brisbane $500 for a couple for each to do a Constellation 2 day workshop.
Prices

Being a representative and observer is a great entry level into Family Constellations. It is a wonderful way to experience the process to see to see if it may be a suitable one for you.

You are likely to gain awareness and learning about relationships in general that may well be of assistance in your own life. Being a representative in a Family Constellations workshop can help you gain insight and awareness into your own situation, relationships and emotions. Great insight can be gained. Many people report great shifts or awareness raising of their own situation from being a participant.

You may be asked to take part in other people’s constellations You have the opportunity to see the facilitator at work,

Constellation. Family Constellation or Business Constellation 

After a short discussion with the facilitator you will be asked to pick representatives of the people of the issue and place them in relation to each other. This sets up the constellation and shows the underlying dynamic of your situation. The constellation taps into the energy field of the family and the situation and the facilitator guides it to a place of more order. This is a solution focused, experiential process that is brief. Constellations places are limited and booked at registration.

What is the difference between the One and Two day workshops?
Healing from the roots One day workshop

During this workshop a number of constellations take place in the day. This is a powerful day of experiences that will often touch each person on several levels due to the variety of the constellations that take place. All participants may be chosen to take part in constellations throughout the day.

Healing from the roots Two days workshop

This is the same as a one day workshop but with more constellations. This is a powerful day of experiences that will often touch each person on several levels due to the variety of the constellations that take place. All participants may be chosen to take part in constellations throughout the workshop.

Healing from the Roots Advanced Healing Experiential learning course. Six day Personal Development

consists of 2 modules.

Module 1 (3 days) Family of origin.

Module 2 (3 days) Present family

Learn about Family Dynamics.

Take the opportunity to receive a constellation in both your original family AND your present situation for deep clearing through the learning experience.

If you are someone who really wants to understand about family and relationship dynamics and gain the tools and experience to step into your rightful place in your family with more clarity and peace. then you will find this course invaluable. With this knowledge you may aspire to be the best that you can be and gain a deeper understanding of those around you. In finding your place in your original family and discovering the underlying patterns of relational and generational dynamics, you may free yourself in the present for new possibilities.

In this course you will learn about Family dynamics, Blind Love, Entanglements, Order. Loyalty and how patterns are passed on though the Family of Origin into Present family situations.

You will be given notes and through teaching and discussion and experiencing the dynamics of your own constellation and those of the group you will be proceed on your own personal journey of clearing and clarifying so you may walk in your rightful place in both your personal and professional life.

For more information see the calendar

Family Constellation Training
9 day intensive 2-10 January.
A unique personal development and Family ConstellationTraining course that is primarily experiential. For more information 

Helpers group is starting.

If you have attended our Family Constellations workshops and would like to volunteer your time to helping out in the workshops in Sydney or Brisbane please let us know. This is a great opportunity for people to stay in the field and to contribute and connect. Please email me to indicate your interest.

Case studies required.

I have been asked to provide a case study of Family Constellations from some one who is willing to provide a name and photograph and their constellation briefly. If you are willing to do this please let us know. For this you may choose to come to a workshop free as a representative or have my latest hardcopy book Be Rich AND Spiritual. I look forward to hearing from you.

Family Constellations Training

 

9 day intensive Family Constellation training 2-10 January 2016, Brisbane, Queensland, Australia

“Its never too late to have a happy childhood” Milton Errickson

Even though there is no doubt that some of us have a much tougher life or destiny than others, in that we may be born into difficult situations or dynamics, it is how we make meaning of it that forms how we move on in life.

There are many things that keep us stuck.
Trauma is often a major contributor in keeping people stuck in the past.
Systemic entanglements of the family system are strong forces.
Poor or insecure attachments between mother/father and child can be significant in making us feel disconnected or unloved.

It has been thought up to recently that such things cannot be changed.

What if it was possible in our unconscious mind and family system, to put events, relationships or situation into a better order? In this way we may be able to experience them differently. Perhaps gain a new perspective that we had not been aware of before that changes how we view a situation and ourselves?

What if we were able to stop carrying burdens for others in terms of guilt, shame, sadness or anger?

What if we were able to release, express or transform our emotional state or trauma?

This is all possible in Family Constellations which is why it is such a powerful therapeutic approach going much deeper than counselling and standard hypnotherapy processes.

I am offering a unique 9 day intensive Family Constellation training 2-10 January 2016 Brisbane.

This is suitable for therapists of many descriptions as well as counsellors, hypnotherapists, social workers, psychologists.

As our family system is pivotal in how we relate in the present, this course will greatly enhance your skills as a therapist in providing you with skills and a compassionate approach to helping people move on effectively.

The training is largely experiential and involves significant personal and professional development in one package. Each person is able to have their own constellations done as part of the training. This becomes useful experiential learning and also a way of resolving entanglements and ‘blind spots’ in the participants of the training which is invaluable in the therapeutic setting.

Unique because this is 3 modules, Family of Origin, Present family and private sessions all in one 9 day training. This is ideal for those with time to do this at this time of the year or those who are travelling interstate.

For Details of Family Constellation Training and bookings +61 7 3161 6171 mob 0412  172 300

www.familyconstellations.com.au

A new start

attractive-womanThe festive season is not the happiest time for many people.

For many, meeting family members can be stressful or even painful. For others it is a time of isolation. Many old stories and memories are stirred up. If you have painful memories that are getting in the way of coming to place of peace then perhaps this is an opportunity to put them to rest and make a new start.

 

 

Jane came to a workshop wanting to increase her sense of femininity.  Even though she was attractive she said she felt unattractive and had little confidence with men. In looking at her family system she came from a long line of women who had not been able to sustain relationships for many generations. She came from a European country that had sustained many wars, invasions and significant violence not only to the menfolk but also to women and children.

 

Jane’s constellation revealed many secrets from the female line and also the sadness of the men that could not stand in their place as men with pride, such was the emaciation of personal and national history.

 

Much grief was released in the constellation on many levels and the men were able to honor the women for their strength in carrying on where they didn’t. Strong men ancestors were bought in to support the men and the women and Jane was at last able to stand up with pride and feel her feminine strength and beauty.

Couples Special

There is no doubt that the family dynamics that we are born into will often play out in present day relationships. This may be in the partner we choose and our love relationship and parenting.

Jenny’s father’s alcoholic behaviour destroyed her family during her childhood. In adulthood Jenny attracted several partners with addictions and eventually had children. Now she is concerned to stop this pattern going into her children’s generation.

Couples Specials October Sydney.
1Couples. Come as a couple. Each of the couple can do their own constellation for $250 each only. Save $100/couple.
2 Resolve a Parent child issue.

  • Mother daughter.

  • Mother son.

  • Father daughter.

  • Father son.

3 Two representatives for the price of one for one couple only.

Studies in epigenetics show that social, emotional and relational patterns are passed down from one generation to the next through the relational connection.

Family Constellations is an ideal process for resolving a wide range of dynamics, quickly, experientially and in a solution focused powerful psychotherapeutic process. Sydney

25-26 October 8.45-5pm
169 Castlreagh St, Sydney 2000
Do your own Constellation $300 Early Bird
Be a representative $90
Book Now

Brisbane
22 Nov 8.45-5pm
Wakerley Qld 4154
Do your own Constellation $270 Early Bird 20 October $250
Be a representative $90
Book Now

07 3390 8039
www.familyconstellations.com.au

Healing and Order

00018Business Constellation
David ran a small business. He and his partner were experiencing many obstacles that had lead to a downturn in sales. In a workshop the components of the business were put up. A conflict came to light between the mission of the business and the the individual intention of each of the partners. The constellation came to an end when the resolution was resolved which involved putting some of he components of the business into order and also looked the two partners and their relationship with success.

The business has picked up considerably since then 3 months ago.

Jenny came to the workshop with a chronic uncomfortable but not life threatening illness that she’d had for 23 years. She had tried every remedy with no relief. The components of her situation and family system were put up and the illness appeared to go back to an injustice unresolved situation that had taken place for her aunt, (mothers sister). Once the components were bought to light and acknowledged the constellation ended. This was in November last year. Jenny came to a workshop in September and happily reported her condition cured.

Jim came to a workshop concerned about his grandson’s behaviour. In putting up the components of his situation, his own relationship with his father came to light that had been quite troubled. Jim’s father had been orphaned and had found it difficult to fulfil his role as a responsible father. After a resolution here Jim was able to acknowledge and begin the process of accepting his and his fathers destiny with some compassion, the representative for his son was able to soften and become interested in moving towards his father and grandfather for the first time in the constellation. Jim is building a healthier relationship with his father and sone and his grandson’s behaviour has improved significantly over the last few months.

How love can become entangled.

MotherSon

A central Family Constellation principle is that there is always love at the core of all family systems.
Many people may be confused or even enraged when they read this. This may be because they are so hurt from their own family system or from observing the cruelty they see in other peoples lives. Many would say, ‘how can love be at the core if abuse is taking place people or there is alcoholism or addiction’ that damages peoples lives?

The reasons are varied and complex. I have give 3 here.

One
Trauma from life and world circumstances such as wars, famines or big political movements cause such a deep imprint that they cannot easily be expressed, released or dissipated. Hence it becomes part of the family system energy disrupting the normal flow of love.

Two
Confusion and the inability to send or receive love appropriately causes rifts between generations so that the family in crisis becomes out of Order in order in order to simply survive.

Three
Being out of order in itself causes more entanglements until it can be resolved and put right again.
This has an effect on our self worth, relationships, parenting and our ability to be successful in the world.

The Systemic process of Family Constellations is a valuable simple process to help each of connect back to the love at the centre of our family system. The Constellation process is Brief, experiential, powerfully effective and operates on many levels simultaneously for rapid change.

We all belong to families and are all subject to each of the above and more. Family Constellations can help you to come back into Order, internally and from there live a fuller and more harmonious life.

How love can become entangled.

A man cam to me with an issue of feeling stuck in terms of his career. He said he had a sense of shame. He was very well educated and accomplished in his field and yet he always missed out on key roles and jobs and was constantly being over looked for promotions. On asking him about his family history he said his forefather was on one of the first fleets to Australia as a convict. This man was eventually freed and was given land to farm and did become successful. In setting up the constellation it was clear that this original man in Australia was not at ease. His original country was set up and the aboriginal people of Australia too. He was very angry wight he injustice he had received from the UK and his representative felt much better in expressing it and then he turned to the indigenous people and felt deep shame. The Aboriginal people were deeply hurt and angry at being displaced and brutalised from their homelands. The representative for the ancestor prostrated himself on the floor before them sobbing and apologising for what and how he had taken the land and for the lives that were lost. He apologised for excluding them from their homelands and taking away their dignity. The representative for the indigenous people stood tall and gave back their sense of shame to him and he in turn gave back what rightly belonged to his home country for the way he was treated too. From this point the representative of the present day man was deeply moved and bowed first to the original peoples of the land and asked for their blessing to do well in this great land. This was given with the message not to forget the original people of Australia. He was then able to face his great ancestor and bow to his destiny and leave it with him with some understanding and respect.

The constellation finished here with the client feeling emotional and relieved and free. He said he felt lighter and optimistic and no longer felt the sense of shame he had always been aware of. He is now doing well in his career and becoming involved in supporting community projects with indigenous people and has expanded his connections across many levels and made some good friends.

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