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Healing Health with Family Constellations

The solution to niggling health problems may not lie in diet, lifestyle or medication but in your family dynamics says Yildiz Sethi in Lifestyle magazine February 2016

Healing Health Family Constellations Yildiz Sethi Published Nature and Health magazine February 2016
Family Constellations views us primarily as relational beings rather than the totally individual entities that many of us consider ourselves to be in the modern world; especially since the advent of Freudian influences on mental health and talk therapy. As human beings we are born through relationships that are heavily laden with ancestral lineage and this has an effect on who we are and how we view the world. We come into the world through and with love and many other emotions, qualities, loyalties and entanglements that can bind us, until we come to peace with them in a respectful way so as to gain more freedom as the men and women of our ancestors and to be ourselves.

Family Constellations is a psychotherapeutic, energetic, experiential process that is brief and solution-focused in nature. The Constellation process may stand on its own, or be part of a personal development or psychotherapy alliance. This powerful, cutting-edge approach was introduced to us by Bert Hellinger, an ex Catholic priest and German family therapist in the 1990’s as a group process and continues to be developed and redefined in the present and is now also available in private sessions.

The group process consists of people, often unrelated, who form a circle with the facilitator to take it in t

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Case studiesA Family Constellation

A man came to a workshop saying that he found it hard to stay in relationships. On setting up his constellation it was clear that he was deeply entangled in his family dynamics. Deeply involved although resentful of Mum and disapproving of Dad. He was also very linked to a generational pattern relating to his family of origin. The constellation was able to highlight eh dynamics he was caught up in very quickly. Assist him in finding a healthier place with his parents and so free him up so that he could stand in the present generation with no guilt or sense of over responsibility. He is now free to find a partner.

Business Constellation

A woman came to a workshop saying that she was sabotaging her career. She felt guilty over her good luck in finding her position in her company, but constantly felt guilty and not good enough even though she was a leader in her field. She kept messing her interviews for a promotion and wandered what was in the way. Her constellation showed the dynamic she was caught up in with the women of her family and her father.
She was able to go through her last interview with great success and is now in a new role.

Family Constellations is brief, solution focused, experiential, powerful and effective. Ideal for those who’re ready for change. As a counsellor and psychotherapist there is no other modality that can reach the depth of insight and resolution as this modality so quickly, deeply and sensitively. This is why it is my preferred way to work.

Be quick to get the Early Bird price for Brisbane or Sydney to sort out something for yourself NOW.
There is no time like the beginning of the year to resolve a relationship issue, move on from a separation, resolve block to success

 Interestingly you don’t have to bring the people of your issue with you.More information

You may reach her on yildiz@yildizsethi.com or www.yildizsethi.com  www.familyconstellations.com.au 07 31616171

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See the article Family Constellations – A Fresh Approach to Psychotherapy.

See the press release Published on Webwire on A fresh approach to psychotherapy
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Training going ahead

The training is going ahead and we still have spaces for those who wish to join us in this 9 day unique intensive in Brisbane. This is a great opportunity for those who come interstate, as it is is only one set of flights.
Further Reading
Learn how to RESOLVE rather than MANAGE emotional and relationship issues for your clients in groups and private sessions.

These are only a few of the comments of this training

“This was truly a great training in so many respects. It has really clarified and refined my approach to helping people and I was able to take it straight into my practice. The opportunity to do my own constellations was invaluable in giving me more confidence in myself in all aspects of my life. I highly recommend it to anyone who is looking for a fresh approach.” Greg

“This course changed me through my constellations and so changed the way I approach counselling and psychotherapy. The teaching style being experiential was really great in that it was so easy to grasp often difficult concepts and I really appreciated Yildiz’s teaching style”. Anne

“What an amazing experience, so rich with knowledge and insight and such a grounded way to approach helping people at a fundamental level. A great course. What a fun way to learn!” Jan

“I now have a logical and structured was to deal with relationships of all sorts, abuse and personal issues al in one course. What a gift. Thank you”. Steve

See article  How to Resolve rather than Manage Relationship and Emotional issues and much more

Family Constellation Training Going ahead

The training is going ahead and we still have spaces for those who wish to join us in this 9 day unique intensive in Brisbane. This is a great opportunity for those who come interstate, as it is is only one set of flights.
Further Reading
Learn how to RESOLVE rather than MANAGE emotional and relationship issues for your clients in groups and private sessions.

These are only a few of the comments of this training

“This was truly a great training in so many respects. It has really clarified and refined my approach to helping people and I was able to take it straight into my practice. The opportunity to do my own constellations was invaluable in giving me more confidence in myself in all aspects of my life. I highly recommend it to anyone who is looking for a fresh approach.” Greg

“This course changed me through my constellations and so changed the way I approach counselling and psychotherapy. The teaching style being experiential was really great in that it was so easy to grasp often difficult concepts and I really appreciated Yildiz’s teaching style”. Anne

“What an amazing experience, so rich with knowledge and insight and such a grounded way to approach helping people at a fundamental level. A great course. What a fun way to learn!” Jan

“I now have a logical and structured was to deal with relationships of all sorts, abuse and personal issues al in one course. What a gift. Thank you”. Steve

Family Constellation Training Brisbane

generations smallFor those of you that have experienced the power of the Family Constellation process in doing your own constellation or being a representative, you know the value of the process.

It is a healing and often a life changing process.

If you would like to help others in a powerful and respectful way in improving their life experience then this is a great opportunity for you to become a facilitator. 

A facilitator of Family Constellations is a facilitator of change. Doesn’t the world need this now?

For myself it is the most rewarding work I believe I could do. I am highly blessed in coming across Family Constellations with Svagito Leibermeister 2005 and later with Bert Hellinger himself in an Austrian training. I have been fortunate in meeting and receiving training from many world Family Constellation trainers and am happy to share this with you in Australia.

I have been holding Family Constellations workshops regularly (monthly since 2005. I started in Sydney and now hold workshops in Sydney and Brisbane.

Benefits of doing the training with us at Family Constellations P/L.

Benefits to you training with us:

  • A complete psychotherapeutic training in 13 days. 9 days of experiential training, with notes, teaching time and practice.
  • Experiential. There are many things that are best learned by experience, especially matters of the heart or soul. The training is designed with this in mind.
  • Practical. You will learn how to set up and proceed through the constellation process.
  • You will receive training of how to run Groups and private sessions in 3 formats.
  • Solution focused. You will be trained to facilitate the client or the system in allowing their best solution to arise through the process.
  • You will be encouraged to find ways in which you can use the philosophy and practice in your work.
  • Family Constellations is a brief therapeutic approach that can stand alone or be part of a therapeutic process.
  • Family Constellations is effective with a wide range of issues.
  • Personal Development. The course provides a great deal of personal development in that you will be encouraged to do your own constellations.
  • Yildiz is a highly experienced facilitator and trainer and a counsellor and clinical hypnotherapist and has been an educator at ACAP the Australian College of Applied Psychology for 10 years in Brisbane and Sydney.
  • You will learn to be a facilitator of workshops and private sessions in one course.
  • You will be able to join the growing numbers of Family Constellation therapists on.
  • You can use it straight away after the training.
  • See the wide range of issues it can be used for
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Family Constellations – A Fresh Approach to Psychotherapy.

PR 29 October 2015 Published on web wire.  See full article

Family Constellations – A Fresh Approach to Psychotherapy.

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“Talk therapies are too slow and often ineffective at helping people with deeper fears, anxieties and family and relationship patterns,” said Yildiz Sethi, Systemic Psychotherapist.

She says,“While Counselling and CBT can be helpful in debriefing, grief and loss, improving communication and raising self-esteem, particularly through the therapeutic relationship, its effectiveness is limited for deeper issues.”

“This is because the deeper issues are unconscious and may involve trauma and systemic entanglements such as:

  1. Personal trauma from shocking events.
  2. Family or systemic trauma that is still present in the family system.
  3. Entanglements, dysfunctions and loyalties in the family system.
  4. Exclusions, disconnections, rejection, neglect, emotional, physical and sexual abuse.”

“Systemic Family Constellations acknowledges the fact that human beings are both individual and social in nature. This means that relationships with significant others especially the family system has a big impact on how we experience ourselves.”

“Systemic Family Constellations is a brief, experiential, solution-focused methodology that shows the underlying issues rapidly.”

“This is done in groups of people with a facilitator, where the issue of the person is shown using representatives from the group, that are spatially arranged from each other by the client. This forms the constellation that shows the underlying dynamics of the persons situation.”

“The Constellation comes to a resolution by the natural movement of the representatives in the constellations and guidance of the facilitator.

This done by;

  • acknowledging reality
  • in assisting the release of emotions,
  • restoring healthy order into the system,
  • encouraging each person in the system to take full responsibility for themselves.”

“The experiences shifts and changes take place through;

  • the rearrangements of the relational bonds of the system.
  • Vision- seeing
  • Auditory- hearing
  • Kinesthetic- body sensation
  • Emotional- feeling”

Family Constellation training is available in Brisbane Australia 2-10 January 2016 with Yildiz Sethi. Special reduction in price over the next few days. Be Quick Details+617 31616171

http://familyconstellations.com.au/training_overview/

About Yildiz Sethi:

Yildiz Sethi is a Counsellor, Clinical Hypnotherapist, Family Constellations facilitator. Master of Applied Social Science (Counselling) Grad Dip Couns. Dip Clinical Hypnotherapy. Training in Family Constellations with Bert Hellinger. Former educator (ACAP) Australian College of Applied Psychology. Author of 2 personal development books number 1 best sellers Amazon.

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Checklist for a Happy Life

Press Release Sept 19 2014 Checklist for a happy life

Family Constellations is epigenetic medicine

DNAFamily Constellations is Epigenetic medicine.

Neuroscience and Epigentics say that our genes are not hard wired, They are switch don or off by inner or outer environment factors such a thought, feelings, life style and diet. This means that we have much more personal control and power than we thought previously thought.

It has been found through neuroscience and Epigenetics that DNA may be switched on or off by many signals, so that the state of mind or feeling and lifestyle choices and diet has an effect on which DNA is switched on or off and therefore may be influenced by many lifestyle choices.

This is ground breaking news for psychology, psychotherapy and many alternative therapies such as acupuncture, emotionally focused work or art therapies including any process or activity that can help to change or improve mindset or how people feel about themselves. The mind is much more than the brain, as it includes feelings, beliefs, mindset, memories and knowledge or wisdom and how we feel about ourselves and how we view the world.

This is great news for family Constellations that help you connect more healthily with your family system and change yru perspective to one that is more life supporting and optimistic.

Book in now to Family Constellations workshops 1 or two days or the  ultimate intensive 6 day personal development .

1 day flat rate workshop

2 day workshops

6 day personal development 

Connection, Love and Fulfilment

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Every one wants to connect  Be  able to be able to receive and give Love and be fulfilled.

This is the human condition. Not being able to realise these primal desires results in suffering.

Connection

The connection with self comes at least in part through the connection with significant others.

Connection with who you are is not a solitary task as we are all both individual and social in nature. Our first experience in life is of being born into family. Those early experiences have an impact and sometimes even though our parents may love us dearly, they may not have been mature or developed enough to know what we needed in order to make good connections and feel love.

Love

Our Parents may have been going through their own situations or dilemmas at that time, which may have included the shock of becoming a parent or having to grow up and take responsibility. There are endless possibilities here.

Fulfilment

However the important thing that neuroscience is showing is that we are not hard wired neurologically and hence emotionally. Changing perspective and seeing the bigger picture can indeed change everything and give you the opportunity to complete your connections and receive love in an appropriate way for you so that you may fulfil your life in any way you wish.

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Experience the Knowing field and gain insight, knowledge and a new perspective of yourself and others.

Come to a workshop and do your own constellation or come as a representative to find your own inner harmony now. 0731616171 www.familyconstellations.com.au

What is necessary to become an effective facilitator?

If you are looking for a way of enhancing the work you do with others and want a holistic approach involving mind, body and soul that is highly effective then this may be ideal for you. You may already know that we are all part of our family system and working with the system is a powerful way of coming to a place of personal resolution. Family Constellations is Systemic Therapy. Family Constellations comes from the Family Constellations is Systemic Therapy. Family Constellations comes from the Phenomenological, Humanistic approach in being experiential, however it is also a brief intervention and solution focused. Generally this training is for people who are already in the business of working with others in a therapeutic way. The training is appropriate for professionals who already have training and appropriate memberships to professional organisations and appropriate insurance for dealing with individuals.

While traditionally Family Constellations has taken place in seminars or workshops worldwide since its inception with the innovator Bert Hellinger, the work or Ursula Franke enabled this work to transpose into private sessions. This development is extremely useful for most therapist who work individually with clients. For this reason module 3 is devoted to the use of Family Constellations in private sessions in 3 different formats so that participants are well equipped to use it in workshops or in private sessions.

Not everyone is seeking or ready for this as it requires the maturity to look at oneself and realise that we are human, much like anyone else, but wanting to have a fuller more satisfying and authentic life. We may be wanting to change thoughts or feelings or patterns. Improve ourselves for ourselves, so we may be more content and fulfilled. We have a focus on finding or being in a more fulfilling relationship or a better parent or grandparent. We each have our own reasons for self development that are unique just as we are.

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If you have attended our Family Constellations workshops and would like to volunteer your time to helping out in the workshops in Sydney or Brisbane please let us know. This is a great opportunity for people to stay in the field and to contribute and connect. Please email me to indicate your interest.

Helpers required for Sydney. Ask if you are interested.

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